By Ben's Family
"We'll just have to love him more!" was my five-year-old's response to my explanation of what having Down syndrome would mean for her new baby brother. Lacey has never considered what he couldn't do; only what he could do. If anyone ever mentions a weakness or a lack of a skill, she immediately comes back with "but he can......" She has always been his most dedicated teacher and advocate, helping him learn as much as he can. She even taught him to swim.
When he started school, he was fortunate to haveothers, who like his sister, saw his strengths and abilities. Ben is considered just one of the gang at Bald Creek Elementary. His classmates include him as they go about their day. He is never without someone to eat with, play with or work with. These classmates often invite Ben to birthday parties and other activities outside of school. Being behind academically doesn't bother Ben. He is constantly encouraged to do his best by his teachers and friends. As he makes progress and learns new things, those around him celebrate with him. It is no wonder he loves school so much. Church has been another place of support and encouragement for Ben. One day he decided to help take up the offering, a job for boys who are proudly elected to that office. No one told him that it wasn't his job or to sit down. Instead, the boys helped him and showed him the correct procedure. When new officers were elected this year, Ben was added to the list of ushers. Now he collects money each Sunday. He takes this job very seriously. The look of pride on his face as he carries the offering plate is priceless!
Ben has always loved and responded to music and dance. About two years ago I found a real angel by the name of "Angel" who was willing to include Ben in her dance class. Ben has successfully participated in dance at Dimensions Studio with Angel Hilemon. He has taken classes in tap and jazz and is currently taking Hip Hop and acrobatics. Ben loves dancing and recently won second place dancing in a 4-H talent show. 4-H is just one more group that has welcomed Ben with open arms encouraging him to be his best. Like his sister, Lacey, so many have decided to just love him more by seeing his potential and giving him a chance.
Ben and Lacey
